Fatherly Instincts

HI its dottttt here well today was a good day for me, myself my kid alicia and my mother went to the funfair today as today was its last day in Bray which is in Ireland well it was a pain for me as im suffiring from a broken ankle well the tail end of it been laid up for 2&1/2 months still cant walk on it any ways first we went to the roller rink which was grand as i am laid up she had no one to skate whit i would normally do that whit her (im a lone parent) i know a bloke a loneparent almost seems taboo when you say it out loud, we bump into this 11yr old who was on her own her grand parents were gambling in one of the slot machine places for starts an 11 yr old should not be wandering around a place like that unattended if she bumped into the wrong set of people she would be lifted but she didnt she bumped into me and made a great partner for alicia we walked all around the funfair i hopped and was always getting left behind well the two of them had a great crack they went on rides togther that they probably would not of gone on alone well my alicia would deffo not of got on well over course of our time together i got chatting to the little girl which i might say i would proud to be called her father polite smart and just a nice kid turns out her father is a deadbeat and mother is not much better by the sounds but you can't take what an 11yr says to seriously but she sounded dodgy which brings me to my point

Have certain men just got that fatherly attraction for kids without a decent father in there lives cause she approached me and there was other men there whit there kids but she approached me and its the same where im from two kids from the estate who's fathers are banged up and they cling onto me as if i were their father not that i mind cause i know what it is like to grow up whit out a father never knew mine which brings me to another point is it better for a kid to be raised by a parent from the opposite sex were harmony cant be found or is it just down to the individual

Well yesterday in my estate i was out side enjoying the clouds as we rarely get blue skys in Ireland, well there ie three brothers op here from 3yrs to 9yrs and what i don't get is that these so called parents just shove their kids out the door and never check on them and this does my head in as they are always causing trouble in my square now me and my mates we all have kids but when their out side so are we keeping an eye on them cause all kids can be a pain and cruel but it's terrible when you see them coming and god forgive i would love to slap the heads of them but making kids is one thing raring them is another i just wish parents could just do there duty and that dont just mean having money you think of the amount of great people that came from humble backgrounds and moved on to be great people cause they had a good upbringing and another point i would like to get across is that it does not take two parents to raise a kid just one good one

Well people its only 5 days now till i get the pin out of my ankle and i can get back to normal but at least i had a good day today as me and my kid went up to the local park today to fly her kite it has been years since i flew a kite it was a good laugh and i forgot how much fun it was and me a fully grown man trying to fly a kite on pair of crutch's but my kid loved it and it was a nice thing to do and cheap only cost 3 Euro ya cant complain whit that but hoping around was a pain in the ass

Do you remember flying a kite up the fields when you were a kid i was up the field the other day whit the kid we were flying a kite and to be honest i forgot how much fun it was i think i enjoyed more than she did which whit brought me to this people are always looking for a cheap way to have fun whit there kids well here it is kites there cheap eco friendly and fun trust me hours of fun